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Liar Liar

29 Aug 2012 Author fragileheart

Oh! how i hate lies and people who lie. I am amazed at how they can lie with straight face and that too even after getting caught red handed. They have all the excuses in the world and they think that just because they are aggressive, others would believe the lie. But a lie will always be a lie and truth will always be a truth. So even if they can lie to the whole world, they cannot lie to themselves and to God. One day they will have to face the consequences of the same since I believe people have to pay for whatever bad they do. Its amazing to know how people can lie to someone they proclaim to love with such confidence. They are the ones who even give ultimatum as to break the relationship so that the other person is bound to think that it must not be true. After this there is no question of confronting next time since ultimatum has already been given. But liars would always continue doing they are good at. Hats off to them…

Why?

25 Aug 2012 Author fragileheart

Why do I get hurt? why do i cry? why does it have to be me? why don’t i get what i want? why do i fail? why don’t they love me? why do they treat me like that? why why why? why do i have to face all these things in life. These are the things running through my mind these days. There is a big question mark to that. Is there something wrong with me? Am I so unlucky? Is it because I don’t fight back or I am scared of the outcome? Should I do this or do that? What would be the best thing to do in a particular situation? Is it because I am not able to share my feelings with others? Is it because I think about others only and not about myself? What if i take a stand and take a decision? who all will be affected due to that? Is it because i don’t want them to be hurt? Is it because I don’t want others to rejoice at my disappointments/failures in life? Is it a curse for something i did? Am I being punished for my past?

Lot of questions but no answers. The more I think the more i am confused. It’s like going inside a maze.

“Seday Choe, Seday Choe”, in English

25 Aug 2012 Author 89kg

I have translated one of the most popular Bhutanese songs called “Seday Choe, Seday Choe”, into English version.

Sadey, my dear and only one
Why’re you crying?
Without repressing your grief, please, confide it to me
Then, I’ll also join with you in your grief
Seday, my dear and only one Why’re you crying?
Without repressing your grief, please, confide it to me
Those heavenly stars, I can bring them on the earth for you
Those precious jewels underneath an ocean,
I can bring them on the ground for you
So, don’t you cry, my dear Seday Why’re you crying?
Without repressing your grief, please, confide it to me
The chosen girl of my heart, my dear Sadey
When your tears drops on the ground,
and Your grief overflows in your heart
I can truly sense and feel them as well
Those precious jewels underneath an ocean,
I can bring them on the ground for you
So, don’t you cry, my dear Seday Why’re you crying?
Without repressing your grief, please, confide it to me
The sun upon the sky seem to be blissful
Though, it has the tendency to set once at the north,
but The sun will rise again from the east
My dear Sadey doesn’t change your feelings for me
My feelings for you’re withheld in my heart
I can take it out and give it to you without any hesitation
So, don’t you cry, my dear Seday Why’re you crying?
Without repressing your grief, please, confide it to me
Then, I’ll also join with you in your grief.

Once there was a girl….

21 Aug 2012 Author amra

Once there was a girl and she had just turned 16.

She used to read lots of fairy stories and believed in happily ever after ending.

All her friends had boyfriends, some even younger than her age used to go for date, and she always used to wonder how it felt to be in love…

She had a crush on this guy who used to sing with sweet voice and all girls actually liked him.

One day…

She is reading again this fairy story called Snow White.

She is lost in the story and does not even realize that a boy has sat near her and is reading with her. She is about to turn page when the boy put his hand on the page saying “I have not completed reading the last few lines…”

She is startled and begins to blush … blush really red…. She has never looked at him so closely but she realizes the she could not lift her head again and look up at his face to get the clear view of how he really looked.

Then the boy speaks up… “So you are reading this children story… Do you believe in fairies…..?”

All she can do is nod her head…

“Aaah I see…” there is a long pause… then he takes her hand in his….. Her heart begins to beat very fast.

“Mmmm… actually it’s been days I noticed you reading this same book over and over again,” the boy says looking directly at her face.

She blushes more and gives him a smile without lifting her head.

Do you have boyfriend?” He asks randomly.

“God… how am I suppose to answer to this question?” she thinks to herself. She moves her head from right to left indicating that the answer is no.

“Oh…” he replyes, smiling brightly.

“Can we go for a date?” he stares right at her eyes.

The girl is red hot… her eyes full of tears (happy or sad or both). She is numb.

“What should I say?” She is confused.

“Shall I take your silence as yes for the answer?” he her hand up towards his lips and places a kiss.

She is stunned… her heart is beating very fast now. “Ok I will meet you after school in the library… be there please… “ and he runs to his next class.

She is silent… her heart racing as if she had taken part in hundred meter dash and is trying to catch hold of her breath.

The wind ruffles the pages of her book, which had fallen down from her hand. She stares it…..

“What…! When did the book fall down?” She picks up the book…..

She goes to her class, her friends had called her from behind but she was so lost she had not heard a single word.

She gets a good bang on her back from the back….

“Awwww” she turns around…….

“Oh…” (Her gaze falls on the book)…

“What’s wrong with you today? Are you ok girl?” a friend 1 asks.

“I’m sorry I have a class to catch… I’m really getting late… I could not hear you… sorry I got to go” and she runs into the class holding her story book close to her heart…

Her friend stares at her…… She has gone nuts today, and leaves for her own class…

Inside the class, the teacher comes in and she has not stood up to greet. The class has begun, but she was deeply lost….

Her teacher finds her with no text book or note book opened on her desk.

She was still holding Snow White close to her heart… and nothing was on her desk.

“He touched my hand, he had noticed me for so many days and I did not know about it!” Soon her thought is disturbed by the hard bang on her head.

She looks up… “She looks familiar,” she tells to herself… “Where am I?”

Suddenly the teacher shouts….” Nisaaa! You ok? Where is your home work note? And why are you catching that book so close to your chest?”

“What the hell is she saying,” she can only see the lips moving above her head. She had not even noticed all the students staring at her.

“Bang ……!” on her head again… “Ouch… that hurts…. ” “Nisa! Are you in the class……?”

“Yes mam….I did not understand you?” blushing all red she stands out of her chair.

“God… why is everyone staring at me,” she blushes more…

“What is wrong with you today? Keep that book down on the table!”

She has no idea that she still holding Snow White close her heart)… “Oh  … ok Mam…. ”

“Get out of the class…..!”

She picks up her book… and leaves the class room, with Snow White still close to her heart and directly heads towards the library.

She is still lost with the same thought… “He had noticed me….. he had noticed me…!”

She pulls a chair in the corner, and sits there. Waiting….waiting……

“He had noticed me….. he had noticed me…!”

A tap on the shoulder… she doesn’t notice.

Another tap, she looks up and the boy is smiling down at her…

Then she speaks out…” I really loved you from the first day I saw you……….”

Her heart beating fast… racing so fast… but she said it at last!

The guy looks at her and smiles….

“I know…..” is all he says and he leaves the library and does not return thereafter to meet her.

The clock strikes 9 pm, “it’s time to close the library… are you done Nisaaa……?” the Liberian looks down at her.

“Yes mam… I’m done.”

She directly heads to her room.

When she opens the door, she sees all her friends waiting for her, and there comes a chorus of …..

APRIL FOOL!

The impacts of reading fiction books

19 Aug 2012 Author amra

Reading lots of fictions makes one imagine that life will be same as it is written in the stores, for example, snow white marrying her prince charming and living happily ever after. But in real life who has witnessed if the story was real or not… the concept of fiction still lays there. People forget that life is not a fictional book which can have an ending which one desires.

Yeshey loved reading lot of fiction books and Barbara Cartland is one of her favorite authors. The Magnificent Marriage was her favorite from all the collections she had read so far. She dreamt of having her own marriage in the most beautiful way. She may not have the most beautiful looks and might not be wealthy enough to afford a simple good weeding like she dreams, but with her chubby face and height of about 5.1, she still looked cute and fabulous with her black hair which was about her shoulder length.

She had fallen in love when she could not differentiate between what is good and what is bad. But it did not last long, she found out her first love cheating on her and she chose to stay single then learn more about how it feels to be in love.

As the time passed she grew up into more beautiful lady. A second proposal came for her; she could not reply him the very day and had asked for some time to think about it. She thought about her first experience with her boyfriend. And after lots of confusion in her head, she thought “if I had a bad first love story, giving a second chance to my own self is bad?” and she went forward by accepting him as her love of life. But who knew her love life was never meant to last more than a month. She found out he too was cheating on her. She wanted to cry but it seemed pointless, how can a person stay in a relationship with two or more girls at the same time?

It hunted her every night “Why me?” of all the girls. She started to concentrate in her studies but she could never stop herself from reading love stories with happy ending. After reading each book she used to wonder “Will I ever get a true love?”

Soon a day came where she was introduced to Dorji by her friend Tindin, who was smart and handsome. Their friendship lasted more than a year and soon Dorji had expressed his love to Yeshey. Without a thought about her past and bad experience she had accepted his proposal to be his girl friend and future wife thereafter. Her hopes were high, she always thought about happy family with lots of love.

Days went by Dorji started to show his true dominant colour. He had already started to abuse her in-front of his friends. But all Yeshey did was kept silent and whatever be the matter she wanted to have a happy ending of this relationship. Four years went by but the treatment of Dorji towards became more brutal. All her friends asked including Tindin “how is your relationship going on with Dorji?” All she could do was smile and tell them it’s just going good. But all of them knew how Yeshey was treated by Dorji. So with Yeshey’s reply they could say nothing.

Soon a day came where Yeshey landed up being beaten all black and blue. That time she thought “I tried my best to save the relationship from falling down in best way possible, respected him even though he was very rude and bad towards her, thinking he would change some day and show her the love he has shown her in the start of the relationship” She cried, cried a lot till her lips got dry and until her voice got lost with the tears.

She then said to Dorji “I can’t do this anymore, I give up! Let’s walk in our own ways!”

She leaves him staring at her. With tears in her eyes, words stuck in her heart, she walks away getting wet in the rain. “Why did I dream so big?” and wonders “Is wanting to be loved and have a good family just too much to ask?”

After a year later finishing her studies, she walks the same road she had walked with Dorji, tears in her eyes…. “May be I just asked too much!” and walks down the street to meet her friends who had asked her out for lunch.

Missing you a lot

18 Aug 2012 Author dodrup

Everlasting promises, to be always together until depart,
For making memories beautiful, never walking apart.
Days with you, the shortest and adorably passed far,
The nights, warmest and soothing, when you are near,
With reason in million of you, I am missing you a lot.

Beautifully your hair are arranged, with scent odor of blue,
Yours finger slipping through it as soft as the feathers do.
Colored red on the nails, holding its golden diamond doted ring,
It waves and dance, tuned to the melodies of the speech you sing,
With such qualities on you, I am missing you a lot.

Kind in heart, soft in words, you were the queen to the eye’s of all,
With blessing and fate, I hold you as my own, proudly and loudly I can call.
Holding the pride, every new day opened on me let to happy dawn,
To walk along with, you holding my arm tightly, I walked like swan.
With those memories now, I am missing you a lot.

Shared feeling of both for tear and laughter we gathered as one,
To cry the happiness of luck, for sadness of silly mistakes done.
You were the queen in cheering my success and a mother to sooth me in pain,
Never to let me be alone under sun or rain, then I loved you as your gain.
With best motive inside you, I am missing you a lot.

Being separated to walk on own carpet toward success and stand strong,
My prayer includes your name day and night, and god won’t do us any wrong.
Though away from my touch love, you are closer in my heart, mind and dream,
Lets pray now, to meet in future, to once again say “I Love You” with scream.
My dear, I am missing you a lot.

The girl by my side

16 Aug 2012 Author xaver

For I loved you truly from my heart
I still don’t get what tore us apart.
In every step I tried to be
The person you wanted to see in me.
From the day I saw you I felt inside
That you would be the girl by my side.
With hand in hand, we would touch the sky
And on whose shoulder I would lean and cry.
Mistake are made and I do realize
But I never knew that with every bit of it your feeling dies.
If I had known that this day had to come
Before you knew, I would have gone.
Why didn’t you tell me I’m not the one?
Why did you make me wait when feeling you had none?
For I wished I had known you before this day
I would have still been happy and gay.

Wife Vs Husband

15 Aug 2012 Author Khamdangpa99

Another Forwarded Email I got from a good friend of mine .. Enjoy !@!!!

Husband: Do you know the meaning of WIFE?

It means, Without Information, Fighting Everytime!

Wife: No darling, it means, With Idiot For Ever

………….

Wife: I wish I was a newspaper, So I’d be in your hands all day.

Husband: I too wish that you were a newspaper, So I could have a new one everyday.

…………….

Doctor: Your husband needs rest and peace. Here are some sleeping  Pills.

Wife: When must I give them to him?

Doctor: They are for you

………………..

Wife: I had to marry you to find out how stupid you are.

Husband: You should have known it the minute I asked you to marry me.

…………….

Husband: Today is Sunday & I have to enjoy it. So I bought 3 movie tickets.

Wife: Why Three?

Husband: For you and your parents

………….

Wife: What will you give me if I climb the great Mount Everest?

Husband: A lovely Push…!!!

…………….

Q: What is the most effective way to remember your wife’s birthday?

A: Just forget it once and you will never forget it again

…………..

The Power of Wife

15 Aug 2012 Author Khamdangpa99

This is the forwarded email i got from a friend of mine. i thought you might like going through !! enjoy @!

QUOTES:-

When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her.
-David Bissonette

After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin; they just can’t face each other, but still they stay together.
-Sacha Guitry

By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll be happy. If you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.
Socrates

Woman inspires us to great things, and prevents us from achieving them.

The great question… which I have not been able to answer…. is, ‘What does a woman want?
Dumas

I had some words with my wife, and she had some paragraphs with me.|
Sigmund Freud

‘Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to a restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft music and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays.’

‘There’s a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic banking. It’s called marriage.’
Sam Kinison

‘I’ve had bad luck with both my wives. The first one left me, and the second one didn’t.’
James Holt McGavra

Two secrets to keep your marriage brimming
1. Whenever you’re wrong, admit it,
2. Whenever you’re right, shut up.
Patrick Murra

The most effective way to remember your wife’s birthday is to forget it once….
(N)Bash J

You know what I did before I married? Anything I wanted to.

My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met.
Henny Youngman

A good wife always forgives her husband when she’s wrong.
Rodney Dangerfield

A man inserted an ‘ad’ in the classifieds: ‘Wife wanted’. Next day he received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing: ‘You can have mine.’

First Guy (proudly): ‘My wife’s an angel!’
Second Guy: ‘You’re lucky, mine’s still alive.’
Anonymous

SEND THIS TO ALL THE GUYS TO GIVE THEM A GOOD LAUGH……AND TO THOSE LADIES WITH A SENSE OF HUMOR WHO CAN HANDLE IT!!!!!!!

Absurdity of human life

14 Aug 2012 Author 89kg

Life is uncertain but death is, yet we human beings wittingly fritter away our transient life carelessly and thoughtlessly. Are humans aware that our lives are numbered right from the birth? As each day passes and each season changes to another, we are heading one step closer to abyss of death. Death is waiting silently and it is attached with every human being like a shadow, counting down the number of their host.

We are afraid of death, yet we don’t realize until our last moment until when faces are wrinkled, hairs turned white, all the youthful energy drained out, and enthusiasm or zeal for the life is completely exhausted. As we walks steadily towards the abyss of death, we are gripped by the fear till we breathe our last. It’s too late at the last moment to retrospect over our lives and feel remorseful over our deeds and actions. Death keeps on pressing us with its ineluctable force; we are left helpless and powerless.

Hence, we should be aware of death and always welcome it without fear and anxiety. We should embolden and armor our souls with bravery and fortitude. But how do we do that? Is the poser that everyone should ask and quest for? It’s not simple and easy way to face and accept death fearlessly and willingly. It takes hearts and souls that have transcended beyond the realm of death, which has fortified and hardened them with layer and layer of spiritual deeds and actions. Contrarily, who cares about being devoted spiritually and religiously, when our souls are young and energetic? Hardly finite number of people, but infinite portion of the humanity still prefers to remain in darker sides blinded by veils of ignorance, anger, greed, jealousy and attachment. We are deeply engrossed in unrealistic materialistic quest, nobody seem to be aware that materialism is meaningless and govern by nature of impermanence. We are born alone in this world and we shall egress this world alone, leaving our endearing bodies. When death comes, we are not entitled to even take our own bodies. Those wealth, fame and glory, garnered and horded with much toil, sweat, blood and handwork are to be renounced, because we have no power and authority to take those things with us, when death separate our souls and bodies.

Our ephemeral lives are running like a flowing river, waning like a crescent moon, disappearing like illusive clouds and receding like melting snow, yet humanity greedily and longingly keeps on amassing the wealth, fame and glory. So, let us denounce our quest for materialistic wealth and embrace spirituality as our true companions for the present and future.

My Patience

14 Aug 2012 Author phubjd07

I don’t even know what patience really is but I simply just keep guessing that it is sitting still and letting something to happen around you at anytime. Am I wrong or right? However my patience is different than what I think. Heck, I know and everybody who read this will know it. I keep waiting for a long time no matter what grumbling or lamenting happens to me but I can’t wait that long. I thought it a waste of time because nothing is going to happen to everyone as they wish. I don’t know how I can describe my patience but I hope you got it.. :) Now ask yourself what is your patience?

Adieu O Mother

13 Aug 2012 Author Kezwaa

Adieu O Mother,
May I write this song for you,
and your departed soul?
I know it’s been a long yore
Since you left me alone,
in a depth of tragedy.
It’s time to mourn,
Sitting beside your grave stone;
I shall lit butter lamp on the alter,
To let you free from Samara.
I am here to lit the lamp of love
With a bunch of daffodil,
In the name of thou.
If you are there in this world
I would not have to face problems,
And be under the depth of despair.
Oh! Mother, this song is mixture of all agony.
I shed tears beside your grave alone,
And feel the pain of your absence.
I know I was helpless
As you took your last breath.
But I shall console,
No one can stop the nature’s commands.
O Mother! May your soul rest in peace.

Kezang Dawa (Kezwaa)

My Prince Charming…

13 Aug 2012 Author fragileheart

My childhood was like that of any other girl’s my age; playing dolls and living in fairy tales. I used to read a lot and my favorite was always Mills and Boon especially when I was a teenager. I used to imagine how my Prince charming would be. He used to be a mix of all the princes/heroes I had read about in the fairy tales and Mills and Boon. Tall, dark, handsome with all the good qualities anyone can have. He would not drink or smoke (this one since i don’t like people who drink or smoke). He would love me and would do anything for me. He would be a good human being. He would come riding on a horse and take me away with him. He would be romantic and take me for candlelight dinners, long drive, shower me with gifts etc etc.

But reality was far from true. There is neither such thing as Prince charming nor anyone with all those qualities. In reality if we love that person then we have to accept his bad habits also as no one is perfect. Maturity taught me that you cannot have anything you want in life but you can want what you get in life and true happiness lies in accepting the fact. Love makes you ignore the flaws about that person and see the good in that person. This is reality and the earlier we accept it, the better it is for us.

Though I did not get the Prince charming of my dreams, i can say that my prince charming is my husband with whom i may argue about everyday issues but at the end of the day, we make up with each other and cannot live without each other.

 

A Different Love Story

13 Aug 2012 Author fragileheart

Sonam and Dechen.

They were ordinary people but their love was extraordinary. Theirs was a different kind of love story because nobody would create such a love story in the circumstances that is not normal. Their love had gone against the social norms and bore fruits. I wanted to narrate it because I feel that in reality these are the things which are happening though people might take time to accept it.

Initially they were just chat friends and used to chat regularly but since they were in the same place, they ended up meeting with each other. Before they realized, they had fallen in love deeply. Till here everything was fine but now comes the twist to the story. Dechen did not know that Sonam was a married man with children. She came to know much later and she confronted him. She tried to end their relationship since she did not see any future for them and  did not want to break his marriage. But Sonam did not agree and kept on seeing her assuring her that he loved her.

Many of problems came their way and were given pressure from family and friends but eventually he got divorced and later married Dechen in a simple ceremony. It is truly said that love overcomes everything and even the impossible seems possible. When it comes to matter related to love, heart is the best judge and you should always listen to your heart. Love can happen anytime, anywhere with anybody.

Memorable bike ride

13 Aug 2012 Author fragileheart

Though I did not know how to ride a bike but I always loved to sit on the passenger seat. It used to be mostly short distances only though. Then one fine day it so happened that my friends decided to go to Mahabaleshwar/Panchgani on bikes for sightseeing. When I came to know about it, I was so happy that my dream had come true to go on a bike for a long ride.

There were five bikes and ten of us going for the trip and we started off the next day carrying necessary luggage. The road condition was good and the weather was perfect. The journey was long and tiresome too but we did not mind at all that since we were enjoying the ride and the scenery along the way. We had lunch along the way and reached the destination before evening. After we checked into a hotel, we had tea and went to check nearby places. Then after dinner we called it a day and went to sleep since we had to start early morning to see the sites.

Next day when we were doing sightseeing, since it had rained early morning the road was quite slippery. On a sharp bend the bike on which i was riding with my friend slipped on the wet mud and we both fell down but luckily nothing serious happened to us. After lunch, we started our journey back home  and on the way we stopped at a small waterfall and took some pictures. We reached home totally exhausted from the trip but it was also the most memorable one.

My unfulfilled wish

11 Aug 2012 Author fragileheart

Everybody has wishes in their lives. Some are fulfilled and some are not. But that does not stop people from making a wish. I too had a wish but it is yet to be fulfilled. But i have not given up hope yet. I still believe that God cannot deny me my one and only wish.

It is not something out of the world that i wished for it and is really very normal in our day-to-day life. Almost everyone gets this wish in their lifetime. But unfortunately i don’t have that wish right now. Sometimes, i feel why me? But then again i feel that maybe God has something better in store for me. There must be some reason for the delay in granting my wish.

The day my wish is granted would be the happiest day in my life. Till then I will pray for my wish to be fulfilled soon.

Children then and now…

11 Aug 2012 Author fragileheart

There is a huge difference between the children of the previous generation and the children of the present generation. I know main reason would be because of the growth in technology but still i could not help but jot down a few here.

One major difference can be found in schools. Before they used to respect all teachers even if they are not teaching us but nowadays it is seen that many don’t show due respect to all the teachers. Another is use of language by the kids nowadays which is not at all good language.

Nowadays, kids know how to use computer, mobile, ipad, playstation, television etc even before they join school. So they are hooked to them all the time. Whereas previous generation would be involved in playing outdoor games which kept them healthy.

Here i am not saying that everyone is like that but when you look around and observe you can’t help noticing that many are like that. Nowadays, it is mostly the younger ones who are into drugs, drinking alcohol, involving in gang fight, stealing etc. But there are also many who excel in studies and sports since the competition is more nowadays.

I wonder what the next generation would be like.

Bandhu Sangma !!!

11 Aug 2012 Author Khamdangpa99

In the boarding school, the food used to be very poor. However at one dinner line gathering i saw dried beef preparation !!! Unfortunately, we were given to self serve only rice and the curry was to be served either by captains or cook. Even so after being dreary for so long without meat i had so much yearning for it and I was thinking “wow today’s dinner gonna be feast!!

As my turn came, i made sure i served enough rice (which was quiet a mountain over my plate), not caring if captain or cooks gives me lesser share of curry. As i geared towards the curry pot, i discovered it was Bandhu Sangmu (dried Brinjal) and not the DRIED BEEF!!!.. poor me .. captains wouldn’t allow to throw away the left over rice !! i had to take all mountain plate of rice with Bandhu Sangmu curry @!!! 😛 😀

What’s in a name?

09 Aug 2012 Author fragileheart

“What’s in a name? A rose will be a rose even if called by any other name.”

When i was a kid i used to think that my name is not beautiful like others or even sounded nice like others. I always used to think if i had a beautiful name how nice it would be. To make it worse, I did not have any pet name also. I used to list down all the beautiful names or the names which i liked and would try calling it out loud to myself. I used to imagine that if i had this name, whether it would suit my personality or it would match me. Then i used to reject one by one all the so called beautiful names and when all the names would be struck out, i would realize that my name suits me the best and whether it is beautiful or not does not matter since people know me by my name.

It was much later when i grew up that i realized and understood that it does not matter whether your name is beautiful or not. It is you that matters, your personality and character defines you as a person. So once the name is given to you, it becomes you.

I don’t know how many of you have ever gone through the same phase but till date i have never changed my name and will keep it till the end.

Integrity is fading…

09 Aug 2012 Author fragileheart

Human beings are selfish by nature to some extent and that’s a fact one cannot deny but in order to achieve something in life we should not forget our integrity. Everybody needs money to survive but it doesnot mean that we have to get it by unfair means. We shouldnot let money rule us since then we would be like a slave to it and do anything to achieve that. We, human beings are never satisfied with what we get, the more we get the more we want and this greediness is the main cause of many crimes. In order to get more money to satisfy our ‘wants’ and not ‘needs’, people end up doing wrong things. Just for short term pleasure, they forget long term benefit and later get caught up and land up behind the bars.

Words like morality, integrity, sincerity, loyality is fading fast from our dictionary. The ones who follow these are lagging behind the rat race and those who break the rules are the ones who are climbing the ladder speedily. If a survey is done for a decade before and now, then the amount of crime related to forgery,embezzlement,cheating, theft,robbery etc have definitely increased by many folds. Even those who are working in a company or self employed, are into bribery to get their work done faster. Respect is something which is hard earned and to lose that won’t take much time. Its same as the time a tree takes to grow and only minutes to fell it down.

The above are my views and not meant to offend anyone.

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